I am.

October 16, 2009

May you hold these truths deep within your hearts……..

I am precious.

I am priceless.

I am a gift.

I AM.

I am amazing.

I am beautiful.

I am extraordinary.

I AM.

I am intelligent.

I am strong.

I am a survivor.

I AM.

I am a beautiful creation.

I am loved.

I am adored.

I am cherished.

Right here.

Right where I’m at.

As is.

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Blooming.

October 13, 2009

You are a beautiful flower coming to life again.

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Growing.

Full of beauty.

Exquisite.

You are being cared for.

You are being watered.

Nurtured.

You are growing.

You are amazing.

Affirmations

October 1, 2009

Affirming yourself and others is really important. It’s one little thing you can do that can make a difference.

But sometimes it’s really hard to affirm ourselves because the words that have been shared with us have torn down our self worth and any confidence we may have had.

But there is hope.

Things can change.

We can learn how to turn those negative, belittling old messages that nag at us and bring us down into positive, affirming and encouraging messages.

It’s hard. But you don’t have to do it alone.

Here are a few suggestions.

1.) Stop subjecting yourself to those negative messages, if you can.

2.) Surround yourself with people who will encourage you, lift you up and affirm you.

3.) Find a support group who will support you if you can.

4.) Let others compliment you. Receive them gladly and soak in those truths.

5.) Write some affirmations to yourself and put them in different places, speaking them in to existence daily, if not more.  I suggest a line or two of positive thought to replace the negative things that have been spoken to you.

Example- If someone continuously told you that you were ugly, right notes that continuously tell you how beautiful you are. Because that’s what you are……a beautiful person.

6.) Write and list of things you do like about yourself and have a friend or two write a list about you too, only to include the positive things. Review these lists frequently and especially when you’re down.

7.) Search the internet for positive, encouraging articles, poems, blogs and people that have some kind words to share. Keep them close.

Some of these things may sound really silly and as you know, none of these things will fix or heal you, but you may find them helpful and encouraging as you work through your difficult time.

Affirm yourself, because you are worth it and you are beautiful.

Replace lies with truth.

September 23, 2009

To you,

Has someone told that you were ugly, a failure, you weren’t wanted, you were an accident, that you wouldn’t add up to anything or that God didn’t love you? Maybe someone made you feel that you weren’t good enough or something was wrong with you because you look a little different than others, that you had no value, that you were sick because you are gay or some other reason.

Listen…

They were wrong.

They lied.

You don’t have to believe those lies any longer.

Throw them away.

Spit them out.

You are an amazing person.

Beautiful.

An incredible gift.

You may not see that now.

Hang on.

You will.

Maybe you don’t see any point in pushing through anymore.

Don’t let go.

You are too precious.

Don’t let them win.

You are too precious.

I know this is tough. It’s hard and it hurts like hell.

Keep fighting. Keep pushing through.

You are worth it.

It will be ok. You will find freedom.

You are wonderful.

You are loved.

You are adored.

You are cherished.

Take back those truths that were once stolen from.

Believe them.
Receive them.
Rest in them.

Whether you have been sexually abused, verbally abused, mentally abused, spiritually abused or physically abused, these words were written for you.

I hope you chase after and find healing, rest, freedom and peace.

Take care of yourself.

Love,

Me

There’s something very important I want to tell you. Yes-YOU.  The one who is reading this.

There is something I want to say because you need to know, so please read this slowly and listen carefully. May it sink deeply in to your heart.

You are a beautiful.

You were created full of exquisite beauty, like a bright flower with extraordinary color, every part of you was made unique. There were no mistakes made when you were created, no accidents or errors were involved.

You are adored.
You are cherished.
You are a favorite.
You are beautiful.
You are loved.
You were wonderfully made.

You are loved with a love that reaches down to the very depths of your inner being to touch your every ache and pain. A love that desires to hold you close and show you how beautiful you are.

You are welcomed to the table and you are accepted. You are to be a part of this dance with the rest of us. You have a part to play in this beautiful song.

Be good to yourself.
Be gentle on yourself.
Be kind to yourself.

Celebrate you this day.

YOU are beautiful and loved.